Family in Postmodern Life

Earlier this year, Rod Dreher published The Little Way of Ruthie Leming: A Southern Girl, a Small Town, and the Secret of a Good Life, the true story of his sister’s losing struggle with cancer and how that painful experience helped him overcome years of alienation from his family. I’ve not read the book, but judging from several reviews, it’s a tear-jerker.

Matthew Hennessey, writing in City Journal, found the book to be a piercing commentary on “the postmodern alienation and ironic posturing that has for too long informed my generation’s warped notions of the good life.” He explains:

Raised on pop culture and relativism, convinced we could create sustainable worlds from scratch, trapped in a permanent adolescence, we find ourselves now at mid-life, with children of our own, with jobs and responsibilities, but with no frame of reference for what’s true or real or good. Who are we, we wonder? How did we end up in an America that seems smaller than the one we grew up in? Why does the culture feel so inauthentic? Where does our bitterness and sarcasm come from? Why are we lonely so much of the time?

Hennessey finds Dreher’s story to be a reflection of his own, revealing a powerful lesson so desperately needed by their generation:

Family—difficult and complicated as it is—remains society’s indispensable institution. Families make communities and communities make a nation. . . . Family might be hard, but going it alone is almost impossible.

So true. That’s why the fight to preserve the family is worth the struggle. It’s too bad that it takes the death of loved ones to make some people realize it.

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The Cosmological Argument

This is a recent video explaining the cosmological argument for the existence of God. It’s a simple but powerful argument showing that God is a reasonable explanation for all that exists.

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I Weep for Miley

From Trevin Wax at The Gospel Coalition, a great commentary on the recent MTV performance of Miley Cyrus that has created such an uproar:

I weep for the little girl who gave us Hannah Montana and became a role model to millions of little girls across America.

I weep for the lostness of a girl who doesn’t see herself stumbling around in the dark. . . . .

But then I weep at the power of grace.

There’s Jesus, lifting the head of a woman of the night and sending her away into the light. There’s Jesus in a crowd, healing a woman desperately trying to cover the shame. There’s Jesus at the well, transforming a woman tossed aside by multiple men.

Weeping is no longer enough. Now, I pray.

Read the whole thing.

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Video #3 – The Aimless Life

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Christianity in America

America has always been a land of free-wheeling opinions, whether talking about politics, religion, race, or sports. But in recent years it seems that the level of polarization among our population has become more intense and strident. Fissures are developing within our society that appear impossible to heal. What is causing this?

NYT columnist Ross Douthat, in his landmark study of Christianity in America over the last half-century (Bad Religion: How We Became a Nation of Heretics, Free Press, 2012) argues that sharply diverging views of religion lie at the root of this division. It would be easy to define these views in stark terms of a rising tide of godless secularism on the one hand and a declining Christianity on the other. But Douthat points to a more complex — and troubling — scenario:

America’s problem isn’t too much religion, or too little of it. It’s bad religion: the slow-motion collapse of traditional Christianity and the rise of a variety of destructive pseudo-Christianities in its place.

I might quibble with Douthat’s definition of “traditional Christianity,” but I believe he’s on to something. America remains a deeply religious nation, even a “Christian” nation by some definition, but the character of that commitment is a far departure from the simple Christianity that emerged out of the first century. Douthat documents exhaustively the rise (and in many cases, the decline) of various flavors of Christianity since World War II, from liberal mainline Protestantism, to a scandal-wracked Catholicism, to the health-and-wealth quackery, to the feel-good megachurch movement, and on and on.

The problem is not that Christianity has failed, but that the real deal has been obscured by a host of pretenders, leaving the average bystander turned off by the entire enterprise. Militant atheism is simply filling a vacuum left by the self-destructive behavior of professed believers.

Douthat provides some suggestions for improving Christianity’s influence in modern culture, but his closing remark nails the solution perfectly–if only we can find the courage to implement it:

To make any difference in our common life, Christianity must be lived–not as a means to social cohesion or national renewal, but as an end unto itself. Anyone who seeks a more perfect union should begin by seeking the perfection of their own soul. Anyone who would save their country should first look to save themselves. Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” (emphasis his)

In other words, Christianity is first and foremost a commitment of the individual to live his life for God. When we lose sight of that foundational truth, our religion–along with most everything else in our life–goes off the rails. As a nation, most of us have forgotten that. Now we’re paying for it.

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Video: #2 – Men Have Forgotten God

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Craving and Cursing the World

In last night’s group study, we were discussing the prevalence of so many destructive attitudes and behaviors among the world’s population. Specifically, we were looking at two lists of character traits found in Romans 1:28-32 and 2 Timothy 3:1-4 — traits such as envy, strife, violence, untrustworthiness, lack of self-control, brutality, etc. Why is it, we wondered, that so many people choose to live this kind of life, when it produces results that are so predictably destructive and depressing?

One participant, Clyde (not his real name), offered an explanation that answered the question wonderfully (and if you knew Clyde’s background, you would respect him as an expert on the subject). He explained that people who live that kind of life crave the enticements of the world at the same time they curse the consequences of that lifestyle. Somehow they can never see the connection between the two, so they go on forever chasing the “fun” and “excitement” that is dangled in front of them, while complaining about how unfair life is to them.

Life is really not hard to figure out, if we would just take the trouble to look at it objectively. This world and everything in it, including our lives, operates according to natural laws or principles that are not subject to our review or approval. That’s not a religious truth claim; it’s a simple statement of observable fact.

The secret to a life well-lived, therefore, is to figure out what those laws are, how they operate, and make decisions that increase the potential for positive outcomes based on those laws. Of course, as free moral agents we can choose to ignore the laws and pretend they don’t exist; but we will likely pay a price in doing so. That’s not the world’s fault; that’s our fault.

If we choose to let our lives be dominated by the cravings of our lower nature, we’re perfectly free to do so. But cursing the world for how those choices turn out doesn’t solve the problem. If you don’t want those outcomes, then reconsider your choices. Why is that so hard to figure out?

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Science vs. Religion?

The “New Atheists” who have waged such a relentless attack against religion in recent years generally cast the issue in very stark terms: Religion represents superstition driven by blind faith and irrational thinking; science, in contrast, represents facts based on hard evidence, logical reason, and rational thought. The choice for all reasonable people, therefore, is quite obvious: all religion must be rejected as a relic of an ignorant past, and science must be embraced as the path to human fulfillment.

Terry Eagleton is a Marxist literary critic and, at best, an agnostic. Which is to say, he is no right-wing, fundamentalist defender of the faith. Nevertheless, he takes strong exception to this depiction of science and religion. In 2008, he gave a series of lectures at Yale University addressing the flaws in the New Atheists’ attack. In these lectures, later published in book form as Reason, Faith, and Revolution: Reflections on the God Debate, Eagleton excoriated this exalted view of science. He writes:

Science, like any other human affair, is indeed shot through with prejudice and partisanship, not to speak of ungrounded assumptions, unconscious biases, taken-for-granted truths, and beliefs too close to the eyeball to be objectified. . . . Science has its high priests, sacred cows, revered scriptures, ideological exclusions, and rituals for suppressing dissent. To this extent, it is ridiculous to see it as the polar opposite of religion.

Religion has its share of problems, no doubt. But to hold up secular science as a guileless alternate is simply to replace one form of human superstition with another. Whether we’re dealing with religion or science, the fundamental issue is integrity in the human heart — or the absence thereof. That’s a struggle that all of us, believer or nonbeliever, must wage with all the humility we can muster.

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Video: #1 – Introduction

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Life Is More Than Grasping For the Wind

As a long-time observer of American society, I have been concerned in recent years about the accelerating decline in our population’s quality of life. Oh, most of us have all the food, clothing, shelter, and goodies we could ever want. But we’re unhappy, dissatisfied, moody, even angry at life. How can people be so prosperous, yet so miserable?

In recent years I have come to see the Old Testament book of Ecclesiastes as an ancient answer to this modern problem. The author’s very secular search for fulfillment in life mirrors trends in our own culture. His quest ended in failure, as he concluded that it was all in vain, a meaningless “grasping for the wind” that left him hating life (2:11, 17). He eventually worked his way out of this nihilistic frame of mind, but it was a long, difficult journey.

That “grasping for the wind” is a perfect metaphor for what many today are doing with their lives. It’s getting them nowhere, and they sense it. It’s Ecclesiastes all over again.

This blog and the companion YouTube videos are designed to challenge people to look beyond this futile way of life and see a more rewarding path. We will explore a wide variety of topics, but everything will be geared toward those–especially among the young–who are struggling to find meaning and purpose in their lives. It’s out there, but we have to know where to look. I hope this small effort can help you in your search.

See the “About” page for a brief bio. You can contact me personally at beyondgrasping@gmail.com. I’d love to hear from you.

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